Problem with alarms when using smart watch

I have an Amazfit X (yeah just don’t do it), it connects fine to Sleep As Android (I have the native Zepp app and Notify & Fitness) and I have been trying to get the sleep as android alarms working for me.

I am completely stumped by the settings & hoping someone can point me in the right direction please.

What I wanted to achieve is :
set alarm for time
when alarm goes off only vibrate the watch
press snooze on the watch

I am utterly confused, each change seems to result in what feels like an unpredictable end result.

This morning I achieved the snooze / dismiss options were only on the phone…but how do I get them to appear on the watch (or both at the same time)?

Please any pointers appreciated.